What you should not do.

４．　What you should not do.

１）　Do not think of the care-given people as "weak people."

　　The relationship between caregiver and care-given is that 　

of "one who helps" and "one who is helped".

　It is not a relationship between "a strong person" and "a weak person."

　Caregivers must always think about how to care so that they do not become "strong people" themselves.

　Please be careful about how you care and what you say.

２）　Do not punish the care-given people.

When people feel uncomfortable, it may be difficult to be kind.

　Even so, caregivers should not get angry or be mean to the care-givens, on their feelings.

３）　Do not tell lies to the care-given people.

We must not deceive or lie to them, thinking that they do not understand difficult things.

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