Talk to them so they can make a choice.

３）Talk to them so they can make a choice.

　　Talk to them so they can make a choice.

　　For example, when you want people to sit here, if you say "Please sit here," it becomes like a command, and they cannot make a choice.

　　Please say "Would you sit here?" or more politely, "May I ask you to sit here?" Then, they can make a choice of "Yes" or "No."

　　Of course, if they can sit in any seat, ask them like "Which seat do you want?" or "Where would you like to sit?" so that they can choose their own seat.

　　When you want them to choose their clothes and other items, it would be better to ask them like "Which one do you choose? " or "Which would you take? "　

　　When you ask them to choose between two things, it is good to say, "Which one would you like?"

　　For example, if you say, "Which one would you like, coffee or tea?", they can choose their preferences.

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